Grief
10 guides on Grief, from choosing flowers to getting them placed.
Cemetery know-how
The First Visit to a Grave After the Burial: What to Expect and What to Bring
The first visit back is different from the funeral. What the grave will look like, when the headstone arrives, what to bring, and how to make the visit something you can do again.
Choosing flowers
Flowers for a Child's Grave: Gentle Choices and Keeping the Dates
A child's grave is tended differently, and for longer. What parents place, what friends can send, the dates that matter, and how to keep them when the cemetery is far away.
How it works
Sending Flowers to a Grave for a Friend: When Their Loved One's Grave Is Far From You Both
How to send flowers to the grave of a friend's parent, spouse or child, what information you need, what to write, and why the delivery photo should go to your friend.
How it works
What to Do With Funeral Flowers After the Service
After a funeral there are more flowers than anyone can keep. Where they can go, what to leave at the grave, what to dry or press, and how to give the rest away well.
Occasions
Birthday Flowers for a Grave: Keeping the Day After Someone Is Gone
Marking a birthday at the grave is one of the most common reasons families send flowers. What to choose, what to write, and how to make sure it happens every year.
How it works
When You Can't Visit a Grave: Seven Ways to Care for It From Far Away
Distance, health, cost or time keep many people from the graves they care about. Practical ways to tend a grave you cannot get to, from remote flower placement to photos, records and cleaning.
Occasions
Flowers on the Anniversary of a Death: What to Send and How to Mark the Day
The anniversary of a death is a hard date. Here is what families place at the grave, what to say to someone who is grieving it, and how to make the day easier to face.
How it works
A Sympathy Gift After the Funeral: What to Send When the Flowers Have Stopped
The hardest weeks of grief come after the funeral, when the support fades. Thoughtful sympathy gifts for a month, three months or a year later, including flowers placed at the grave.
Occasions
Valentine's Day Flowers for a Grave: Roses for a Spouse Who Is Gone
For a widow or widower, Valentine's Day is one of the hardest dates. What to place at a spouse's grave, why silk roses in February, and how families support a grieving parent that week.
Occasions
Wedding Anniversary Flowers at a Grave: Keeping the Date After Losing a Spouse
The wedding anniversary is the date a widow or widower marks most privately. How to place flowers at a spouse's grave for it, what to choose, and how children can help.